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War Room Prayers for your Marriage

Powerful War Room Prayers for your Marriage

What is a “war room” prayer?

A war room prayer for your marriage is a prayer you pray when you are completely serious about praying for your marriage.

You are determined to cover it in the blood of Jesus and in His power for His glory.

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The Bible says we are to always be on guard because the devil “prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” ( 1 Peter 5:8, NASB), always trying to find a place in our lives to pounce and attack us.

 His goal is to destroy you, your prayer life, and your witness.

One of the ways he tries to do this is through your marriage.  

Why does he attack our marriages?

Because it is the closest relationship that mirrors God’s relationship with the church.

Please understand that I am NOT saying you are not serving the Lord or not being a witness if, for some reason, you are divorced.  

God gives each of us free will, and sometimes, no matter how hard you pray or what you do, the other person still chooses to leave.

Unfortunately, we live in a broken world with sin is a consequence.

This is why it is vital to guard our hearts and minds and cover our spouses and marriages in prayer!

Why pray for your marriage?

Because the devil wants to destroy you.

He wants to eliminate any and all good in your life.

He wants to destroy your witness.

As I said earlier, one of the ways he tries to do this is through our marriages.

If he can destroy our marriage, he can tear us down.

Not only us but our children also.

This can have generational consequences!

He loves tearing us down, destroying our faith in God, and making us believe that God does not answer prayers.

 If you quit believing that God answers prayers, then you stop praying.

 A defeated Christian is not someone he has to worry about.

However, a Christian who says, “Not today, devil!” gets up and prays every single day, trusts in God’s Word, and is committed to living out His will for their lives…that person is someone who scares the devil!

The committed Christian who believes God at His Word abides in Him prays earnestly and claims the power of Jesus’s name is a person the devil is afraid of.  

Why? Because he can’t defeat you. You cause a kink in his plans for evil.

The name of Jesus is the name above all other names!

He is King of kings and Lord of lords, and there is not one single thing satan can do about it!

Except, try to get you to stop believing.

Imagine living in that power in every area of your life and walking in that power.

Imagine the lives that can be changed!

The power of your testimony and your witness can lead others to a life with Jesus forever!

If you do this, don’t expect your life to be a walk in the park, my friend.  

Once you determine to live this kind of life and pray with this kind of power, the devil will not only be scared but also look even harder for any crack he can find in your armor of faith to slip in and attack you.

That’s why the Bible says we are to put on our armor.

That’s why we are called to be warrior women!  

Praying over our husbands, marriages, and families is our duty and privilege.

What to pray for in your marriage

“Answered prayers aren’t merely improbable coincidences. They are fingerprints of a living, loving God who invites all of us to draw close to Him, the One who made us and “is not far from each one of us; for in Him we live and move and have our being”(Acts 17:27-28 NKJV).” The Battle Plan for Prayer, Kendrick, Stephen, Kendrick, Alex.

The Battle Plan for Prayer book

As we learn more about prayer and its power, we have a more profound belief in the importance of prayer.  

We have all had fights in our marriages.

The best way to fight in a marriage is to pray!

Don’t wait until the attack comes.

Don’t wait until you are in the thick of battle and fighting with your husband all the time and ready to pull your hair out, and maybe even his!

Pray now, pray hard, and pray often.  

Pray that God will guard your husband’s heart, pray that God will set his heart on fire to serve God and be the head of your home as he should be.  

Pray for God to guard his mind because we all know Satan is a liar and tries to convince us to believe his lies.

Pray for God to help him be the husband and father God created him to be.  

Pray for his relationships not just with you but with his children, other family members, friends, and co-workers.  

Pray that he will rise and be a man of strong faith and trust in God.

But how do we do this?

woman in wedding dress holding flowers

War room prayer position

This is not just a boxing match, my friends.  

We don’t meet satan in the middle of a ring, shake hands, or hit gloves and then come out swinging.

We are in a full-fledged war here!

So what’s the first thing we must do to get into a position to fight this war with the devil?  

We get on our knees. Yep, that’s it. That’s the position we take when we battle with the forces of evil.

The Bible says in Ephesians 6:10-12, “Finally, be strengthened by the Lord and His vast strength. Put on God’s full armor so you can stand against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers of this darkness, against evil, spiritual forces in the heavens.” ( (in)courage Devotional Bible).

So the next time you feel that struggle start, a fight with your husband, you know something is off, remember our battle is not really with him.

It’s against the evil forces of the darkness.

Remember, we do not meet the devil in the middle of a ring, shake hands, and expect a good clean fight.  

BUT that’s ok because we know what to do.

We have a strategy, a plan of attack, a way to defeat the devil and his evil plans.

The Battle Plan for Prayer book

The Bible is our battle plan! It’s better than any government department of defense or offense.  

We have the best strategist on our side, and He tells us exactly what we are to do.

Does it really get any better than that?

Again, we have our battle plan in the same book and chapter that tells us about our battle.

 “For this reason, take up the full armor of God, so that you may be able to resist in the evil day, and having prepared everything, to take your stand. Stand, therefore, with truth like a belt around your waist, righteousness like armor on your chest, and your feet sandaled with readiness for the gospel of peace. In every situation, take up the shield of faith with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is God’s Word. Pray at all times in the Spirit with every prayer and request, and stay alert with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints.” Ephesians 6:13-18 ( (in)courage Devotional Bible).  emphasis is mine

Seriously, does it get any better than that?!

God tells us we will be attacked, so there is no need to pout and whine when it happens because we know it is going to.

 Then, God tells us EXACTLY what to do when it does happen!

Read Put on the Armor of God to find out more about this.

War room prayer preparation

As much as I’d like to say all you have to do is read your Bible and then get on your knees and pray, there is a little more to it.  

You don’t see an army gather a bunch of men and then fight without any preparation!

Well, at least not a good army.  

We have to prepare ourselves.

 So we need to get into the Word, which is our Bible.

Once we do this, we find that we need to prepare our hearts.

 I know what you are thinking.

“I’m right, and my husband is wrong, and he just needs to listen to me or change his ways.”

I hear you! I was the same way!

My goodness, I’ve tried so hard to change my husband at times throughout our marriage.

I would get frustrated when he didn’t act or say what I thought he should.

But, I mean, seriously, if he would just LISTEN TO ME!!  

Then I found the book The Power of a Praying Wife.

I thought I’d found some kind of plan to change my husband and make him exactly like I wanted.  

The Power of a Praying Wife book

Want to guess what the first chapter is about? Changing me!

What?! I said, “I’m not the one who needs changing, Lord; it’s him!”  

Well, if you read your Bible, you will find out that to have power in our prayers, we have to get OUR hearts right.

 I had to do some real soul searching and confessing.

I’m not going to lie; it wasn’t as fun as it may sound.  

I realized that I had unconfessed sins regarding my husband.

Instead, I had anger, bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness.

Man, my heart was a mess!

I had to repent.

I had to get my heart right with God before I could really pray for my husband.

So before you go on the attack in prayer and put out a “prayer hit” on your hubby, you may want to talk to the Lord first.

I was reminded of the story when the crowd brought a woman to Jesus and told Him the law said they could stone her.

Then Jesus (paraphrasing here) wrote in the dirt, looked at them, and said, “Let He who has no sin cast the first stone.”  

I LOVE that story!! You can read the entire story in John chapter 8.

Example of a war room prayer

So now that you know what a war room prayer is, why you should be praying a war room prayer for your marriage, what to be praying for and how to prepare for it, what do you actually pray for?

I always start out by asking for forgiveness of my sins and getting my heart right.

Then I thank God for my husband and my marriage.

I start at his head and go to his feet!  

I pray for a sound mind and wisdom.

 I pray that God will open his eyes to the goodness of God and all of his blessings.  

I pray that he will shut his ears to the devil’s lies and open them to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit.

 I pray that God will guard his thoughts and protect him.

 I pray for a sound mind.

Pray God will guard his heart and that He will have a heart for God and the things of God.

 I pray and ask God to protect him and remove anyone or anything that would be a temptation to draw him away from our marriage and God.  

Ask God to fill him with the Holy Spirit and flush out anything that is not of Him.

 I ask for the healing of any past or current hurt, anger, bitterness, or resentment and that God will redeem and restore what has been hurt or lost.

I pray for his health and that God will heal anything that is not as it should be.  

I ask God to guard and order his steps and keep him from going off the path God has for him.

I ask God to guard his relationships with family, friends, and co-workers.

 I want him to have good, Christian relationships with people who will only help him draw closer to the Lord and draw him away.  

Men who love God and their families will mentor my husband and encourage him to have strong relationships with his family.

Below you can sign up for my newsletter and receive a War Room prayer you can use to pray for your marriage and fill in the blanks to make it personal.  

Our marriages are a blessing, and it is so important that we cover our spouses and our marriages in prayer.  

Going to the throne of God to obtain mercy and grace.

 We must give our marriages to God and rely on Him to guard, protect and bless our marriages and homes.

Battle Plan for Prayer book
The Power of a Praying Wife book
The Power of Prayer to Change Your Marriage book

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Be blessed in the battle!


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  1. What an absolutely great post! I’m guilty of not praying for my marriage as much as I should, and this has inspired me to diligently begin praying.

  2. You brought up a lot of great points. One of them simply being, “we have the privilege to pray for our husband.” Sometimes I get lazy and pray for others before him, but to have a mindset change and think of it like a privilege and honor is a great point! You’re so right when you say to start praying BEFORE the battle begins. Satan certainly comes to destroy the home, often starting in the marriage. Blessings to you!

  3. This is such a beautiful reminder of the depth of our prayers. I spend a lot of time praying for my husband and daughters but they all sort of go the same way and they don’t cover a lot of different aspects. I am so thankful that God hears and understands our groanings and our desires as well as our words.

    1. Yes, me too! Sometimes I feel like I get in a rut then sometimes I’m just not sure how to best pray about a situation.

    2. So many helpful tips here, Karen! Since only God can help us do marriage successfully, the need for prayers cannot be overstretched! Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you!

  4. I just love this. You know, I pray a lot but I forget to pray about my marriage. Thank you!

  5. Praying for ourselves first isn’t selfish, its necessary if we want to effectively pray for our husband! This is something I forget too often. Thank you for the encouragement!

  6. I think it’s SUPER important to pray for my husband. I know it works. And I’m grateful that he prays for me, too.

  7. I am guilty of not praying for my husband and marriage the way I should. This is so inspiring. I wish I had read it years ago but I thank God for coming across it now. There is still hope!!!

    1. Yes ma’am there is ALWAYS hope! We know with God nothing is impossible even when it seems like it from our point of view.

  8. Need prayer for my marriage husband is an addict and has a woman who he has cheated with as a supplier for his addiction.

  9. Sometimes I’m not sure what to say in prayer. I found you on Pinterest , I look forward to applying this to my prayer life. Blessings?

  10. Pray for Yhamile and Anthony. Restauration my married and God touch the mind my husband and heart. He feel a lot rejection for me and negative thoughts. The enemy attack my married long time ago. Pray for God give him freedom from the enemy, and the lover live my husband. And my husband return to home. Thanks

  11. I am a Christian and buy loads of Christian books but have a challenging time with the praying as I have never been shown how to pray and I always envy those like you that can pray so beautifully. Now, my husband wants a divorce and I really could use the power of prayers. Would you please keep my marriage in prayer for restoration. Thank you and God Bless!

  12. Pls prayer for my marriage my Inlaw hates me, they control my husband they use muthi pls pray for my marriage.

    1. Definitely praying. The Bible says a man is to leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife. Genesis 2:24 I will be praying for God to strengthen your marriage, heal, redeem and restore all that has been lost and heal your relationship with your in laws.

  13. Just what l needed to hear. I am at that point of powerlessness but now l have the strategy. Yes l have always prayed for others but l now know where the battle begins

  14. You just made me realised I don’t know how to pray aright for my husband and marriage. This is indeed an eye opener, thank you so much, God bless you.

  15. Hello
    I clicked for to receive the war room prayer for my husband and nothing happens. I would love to receive the prayers. Indeed this to pray that God deliver my husband from some thingse.

    1. Did you get your War Room Prayer for your husband? I think I sent it but I can’t remember. I’m having a blonde moment! lol

  16. Hello I would like a War Room Prayer for my Marriage please

  17. Hi may I request for a War room prayer. This is what my marriage need right now.Thank you and God Bless.

  18. I’m so happy and blessed to have this! I realized how wrong I’ve been praying my husband and changing myself in our marriage. I’m struggling in my marriage as I type this, thank you so much for this!

  19. Hello I would love a War Room Prayer for my Marriage please! My marriage is so broken right now and I’m believing God for a miracle 🙏🏻

    1. Definitely praying for John and Tina. Father, we lift John and Tina up to you. Lord, we praise you for who you are and thank you for hearing our prayers. Dear Lord, we believe everything is possible with you; nothing is too hard. We ask you to touch John and Tina’s hearts right now. Lord, you alone know all the details of their marriage, their thoughts, and the hurt in their hearts. We ask you to touch their hearts and help them to see each other the way you do. Help them to forgive and to love each other the way you love us, for we know that love covers a multitude of sins. Please guard their minds, ears, and hearts against the enemy’s lies. Guard their eye against looking to others for comfort that can only come from you. Please turn their thoughts and hearts to each other as well. Open doors of communication and help them to communicate with each other openly and honestly without fear because perfect love casts out fear. Father, we know you do not like divorce, and there is no situation so bad you cannot come in a change everything. Give them a deep desire to seek you, get their hearts and minds right with you, focus on their marriage, and keep you always at the center. Thank you for hearing and answering our prayers; thank you for your work in their hearts and marriage right now. We ask you to send them strong Christian couples who will support and mentor them, encouraging them to stay close to you and each other. In Jesus’s name, we pray, amen.

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